Showing Appreciation

“Appreciation...acknowledges the presence of good wherever you shine the light of your thankful thoughts.” ~ Alan Cohen

I have come to realize that one of the best gifts we can give one and other is our appreciation, our thanks - whether it be for something specific like a gift or favor, for friendship or kindness in general, for going above and beyond or for something unique and special.

Change, it seems to me, and appreciation go hand in hand. One of the best things we can do for each other - particularly during times of change - is share why we are grateful and thankful for each other.

I think these things are on my mind for a couple of reasons. The first is that I am changing jobs. I am VERY excited about the new opportunities (yes, plural -- full time and part time!) and the new challenges. However, like with any life change, there has been associated reflection. In my case, I am leaving a job in which I worked with youth (teen girls in particular) and I find I am evaluating my impact of their lives and their impact on mine. On my last day, two of the girls presented me with a gift and although it was very nice and very thoughtful, I was more impressed with the cards the girls gave me. The way they expressed their appreciation for me was more important to me than any material object they could have shared. They let me know that I made a difference in their lives and their thanks and words of appreciation will stay with me wherever my life and my career may lead.

The second change is that a good friend is moving and for the last two years that I have known her she has become such an amazing friend. She is the very best personal cheerleader and support system that a girl could ask for. She does thoughtful things all the time and I am sure I don't even know about all of them! She is the kind of person that trumpets your successes and celebrates your accomplishments. She has had such an incredible influence on me - particularly over the last year -- and she has helped me to find success I didn't even know that I was capable of. I am not sure if she realizes how phenomenal she is but the things she does just because she is being herself are thoughtful, compassionate and remarkable. She is amazing and I hope that she knows how much I appreciate her!

Between my girls and my good friend, I have had two important reminders of how good it feels to be appreciated and celebrated. This blog is to say thank you to all of those in my life who have helped me to become who I am today - and who have cheered me on as I embark on new and exciting personal and professional opportunities -- and to remind me to constantly show them how much I appreciate the impact they make in my life and in the lives of others.